time heals all wounds

Ok girls.... It's that time. What time you ask? Time to cut the ties and leave that loser in your past. It won't be easy, it may actually suck for a little while... But good news it will get better.

I once thought that losing a guy that you cared about was the worst thing imaginable, and not to say it's the best thing, but it's definitely not the worst. It stings... You might have to delete his number or defriend him on facebook to keep yourself from the momentary temptations to stalk him... But you have to do what works for you. As long as he is in your life, the cycle will most likely continue. So bite the bullet and say goodbye because life can be much better when you aren't agonizing over the "what ifs" and "could have beens."

But the best news of all is that one day you wake up and realize that not only did life go on... But you are actually happy and healthy and your broken heart is healing. And there may or may not be a new guy in your life, but you realize that you are much better off then you were when you had to deal with all of his BS and selfishness. And the best part? You can finally spend some time doing what makes YOU happy, not someone else. So, relish in these moments. Spend some quality time finding yourself and remembering what it is that is important to you and what you really want out of life.. because in the end, that's all that really matters anyway. And finding a guy who wants those things can only happen when you are sure of them yourself!