so as i find myself at somewhat of another "crossroads" as far as relationships go... i've had a new revelation. i wrote before about the "wonderwoman movement" and this is along the same lines... i'm so tired... and so done... living by a guys standards and on his terms. they don't always mean to do it, but somehow i always find myself wondering what i could do to make things work. and the truth is that the answer is NOTHING!
i have done all that i can. i have put myself out there. i have made my feelings known. i have been genuine and honest and flexible and giving... because i want to be and i pride myself on those things. but if i put all of that out there and you still aren't sure if you want to be with me... then i'm not waiting around. you can have all the time you want to figure it out, and i may or may not be available when you do. and in the meantime i will not be waiting in "limbo land" for the zillionth time... with yet another guy... i'll be living my life. setting my standards high.. and finding a guy who meets them and wants to be with me-whatever it takes! so if you aren't that guy then see you later alligator!!
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I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right, you believe lies so that you can eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
ReplyDeleteForgive, forget, and let happiness be your revenge.