i think you're confused

what is it about guys and being immature? i really just can't understand it. let's say, for example, that i am throwing a party for my friends' birthdays and it's not my party, but i invite you on their behalf, then you somehow feel the need to not only not come, but to remove yourself from the invite list!? what is that about? are we 5? are we not friends anymore because i won't talk to you? regardless, this actually isn't about you and me it's about 3 other people, 2 of which came to your birthday party, and you can't even show the same respect?

and you must be really confused, because last time i checked, i'm the one that had a right to be mad at you, not the other way around. just because for once i'm not calling you or trying to get you back, doesn't mean that you need to act like a baby! i have done NOTHING to you, and yet you want to get a reaction out of me and make me feel like i am somehow in the wrong and you are just "too cool." which is sad because now i know that not only were we not really even friends during the past several years of ups and downs, but now i also get to see where your priorities are and that you aren't the person i thought you were at all!!

so guys, if a girl doesn't talk to you because she is fed up with the same old BS, please don't act so butt-hurt that you make decisions like these. because all it says to the girl is that you are immature. if the situation were reversed, i would be there will bells on to celebrate a friend's birthday, regardless of who was throwing the party or attending. granted, i obviously did take the time to notice, and it elicited a response, but this is my 5 minutes of venting, and you have a lifetime to regret your poor decisions!